Imagine I have been arrested for organising mass disobedience of visa regulations at every international airport. Forensic probes into my memoirs have discovered how I developed the vision of moving across all boundaries. Many voices, pictures and videos are extracted from my memory – conscious, sub-conscious, even unconscious. Investigators weren’t sure whether or not the events, recorded in my memory did actually happen, or my brain thought that they happened. Apparently, at young age I started following all rules and regulations of my society and my country - India; I was ignorant about the world beyond. My goals were to get a good job, a good wife and a happy married life thereafter. I got a good degree and a good job. Parents got me married to a suitable girl – Subhadra. Subhadra had friends in many men and women, for whom she would do anything, often taking advantage of her marital status and her husband’s time and resources. Often she made herself sexually available to male friends while she hated her husband’s proximity. She remained married primarily for her husband’s resources and protection. I, Subhadra’s husband, couldn’t afford the legal battle for divorce. I tried to get jobs at remote cities, but that did not help. Either Subhadra lived with her parents or her relatives crowded my place. After getting desperate, I planned to leave the country for a better life elsewhere in the world; Subhadra tried hard to dissuade me, but I was determined to try my luck across country boundaries, even without Subhadra. Subhadra and her parents could read my mind and she consented to leave the country with me. Even in the new country; Subhadra never treated me as her beloved husband. I developed a vision for having one big family in the entire world, so that no person is exploited by the legal spouse – Know No Country Boundaries – Know No Family Boundaries. After striving for years to establish marriageless societies in the borderless world, I felt these goals are not achievable in my lifetime, while as I grow older and older, it becomes more and more difficult to leave Subhadra and strive for a life of mutual love and confidence.
